It doesn't matter in the long run of things but I mention it because I saw that as the turning point and the touch down of the tornado that was about to begin.
@sandi2
My wife actually hadn't long given birth when I met her (around 6 months). You asked a great question in that what would I do differently if I knew it wasn't the fogged brain talking, I think thats what I honestly struggle with the most, I think if the OM was not involved at least I could be clear in my own thoughts that perhaps her judgment and or her feelings towards me where not being clouded by the highs of this new "relastionship".
