I hear you about expectations, i dont think its that, but it feels like by doing this he has alienated me from his family even more. My family live abroad and i dont have anyone here to support. I think thats why i am affected by it.
Re finance we are in uk. He wants to split it himself, there isnt much to split. Its mainly joint account where we no longer need them. I seem to be the sensible person and he seems to just spend my money and his on his little ventures.
Im likely to move country Steve, so not much sharing will be happening, at the moment that is my desired outcome.
