We find that LBS that get affected by these kinds of things the most are the ones that are keeping expectations, even if deep down only. Gigi, he is not likely to snap out of this anytime soon. There will be much more that feel like slaps to the face in the future. This is why we were trying to get you to see that there was little you could do about the kids meeting OW. Split holidays, separate birthday celebrations for the kids, taking them on vacation with OW, etc. Lots of things you have to face moving forward. You have to face the reality that your MR, for now, is over. You need to embrace the fact that you will likely end up D'd.
Have you consulted an attorney? Separating finances is a legal thing and you need legal advice to make sure what you are proposing is legal and in your best interests.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
