I cant understand why this has affected me so much. I dont know if its the fact that going up to see mil was our annual family trip or the fact that mil has agreed to meet the ow. I dont think it matters too much why, but i feel rubbish about it. Like im being replaced.
Im really keen to separate finance now, he is spending Too much out of our joint account and of course this is how he is funding this little trip too! Thats is not ok. Almost like he it taking advantage before we split things because mondy will be tight once we do.