Thanks for checking on my thread too. I always like to hear from you: I feel like we were in the very thick of things at the same time and I always look forward to reading your updates.
Are you feeling steady? You seem to have gone from saying you're just about in love with a man you'd only just met, to getting rid of him, to dating some other people, to snooping on your husband and sounding quite bitter towards him and his quite minor and innocent life choices all in the space of a few weeks. He can live in the house and not clean up after himself if he wants to, and buy daft cars if he wants to. Weren't you about to serve him with divorce papers? Did you decide against that? I struggle to understand why you'd care what he did with his furniture if you are in love with someone else? Can you slow down and just take care of yourself a bit (and date, by all means, as many and as intensely and as often as you see fit, of course) and detach further from what your H is doing or not doing? You have a lawyer involved, you are divorcing him, and you are seeing other people. It is probably time to think of you and your H are two single people, and give him the respect and privacy that a man you are no longer married to is allowed so you have room to cherish yourself as you deserve.
