Now I'm incredibly grateful to the universe for extricating myself from a MR with this person. Not just because of the discord, which may dissipate over a period of years, but because I see things for what they are... she is an uncompromising person who has no skills to work through conflict. I saw it during our MR with her relationships with family, friends, colleagues. I just didn't realize at some point that laser focus would be directed my way. It's more important to her to drag me through the mud than to support our children. That's not on me. Perhaps one day I'll forgive, but I'll never forget.
You sound strong and sure in your position and you've come such a long way. Seeing things for what they really are truly gives you a sense of freedom doesn't it? The key is like what you said - the universe is freeing you from this person who is not worthy of your love and time. The process may be difficult and painful, you will get to the other side. Wishing you the best of luck!
