Walk in the light. Continue to be the safe place for H to land. Shine as a beacon to H, your family, and others.
Non-judgemental and compassionate. Forgiving and accepting. H will be his own harshest critic. He will seek to make restitution for his actions, in time.
You are doing great. Dig for patience and follow God.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.