One thing that has hit me hard was that last week he was telling mil that no need to meet ow as its not like that and tomorrow h and ow are going to see mil....

So far A with ow has been all secretive, and now it is really taking a different route, i guess a more serious one?!

Any indication how long these affairs last?

Also how do i handle interactions with in laws?

I was very close with his mum for 4 months, and now that he is has started talking to her, its only natural that it will become more awkward for us to talk.