I just validated him and listened when he was saying that he already grieved for our relationship and so on and that i destroyed it basically. I absolutely get that he had longer to adjust.
I feel ok, sad for the boys when they find out. Otherwise good. Very reasonable re finance so pleased with that.
I dont intend to do anything, but communicate around children and thats it really.
No mention of divorce, which i find odd as he is clearly with ow and meeting mil just sets that in stone for now.
I also have an option to move countries! To be closer to my family, which in actively considering at the moment!
