Hi DaB, I have followed your sitch for a while, you are doing great. Your ex left so quickly, and it takes time to heal whether you get Ded immediately or after several years. I will say that it's taken 18 months for me to heal enough to date again and to feel ok about letting my H go. Some people take more, some less, but it does take time. It might still be early days for you, and you are doing all the right things here. Keep it up!