A watery facsimile of you, FS. I imagine you have a strong, vibrant personality, so maybe he can't handle that and wants a more boring version of you?! Glad to hear you are doing ok, you sound like you're in an ok place and moving forward. Hopefully in time H can be civil and reasonable (hoping for the same from mine too...) I wish we could meet sometime, that would be so cool! Enjoy the tattoo!