Hi everyone, it's been a while! I've been busy, having fun and living a great life I finished it with the Youngster as the red flags turned into massive giant red banners. Well actually I made him finish with me as I realised his ego could not cope with me ending it. He tried to backtrack and I was having none of it, then he sent me just the most outrageous, deeply unstable messages you've read. Someone can hide their trauma for a couple of weeks but after that it leaks out. He had a LOT of trauma clearly. I am so relieved it's over, and that he has backed off now. I was going to have to block him. The sex was amazing, he had so much potential, but fundamentally he wasn't able to take responsibility for himself so there was no way I was tolerating that. Had that with my H!! This bloke also wanted me to spend lots of time with me and I wasn't comfortable doing that at the expense of my kids, another big red flag... I will start another post as this will be super long otherwise!
