Wait a bit before reaching out to XH about more time on daughter’s behalf. Let her feelings find their balance again. She is a little stirred up after the trip. Confer with her in a few days or week to see how sure she still is. And go from there.
Perhaps, if she still wants to spend more time, encourage her to talk to Dad herself. You support her, and she can speak with Dad.
Good job on your decision regarding the wine.
You got this, girl.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
