I quote: "the key was that I was doing things to show her I was not going to cater to her wants and wishes" - I told her I did not want to be friends but that we could coparent.
I suggested that when the exchange happens with our kids every other week that I would send her forms and stuff from the school in an envelope that she could send back when it's my turn to have the kids.
She told me she would never do this because it's too business like and I'm thinking what exactly do you want? I don't want a friendship with you.
She basically doesn't want anything to change and I just have to accept her new lifestyle and not make a fuss and act like her moving on is no big deal.