Thank you for your responses. I do need to be the type of person only a fool would leave. I need to remember and continue to GAL as that is how that becomes a reality.
As for doing the math and figuring out the numbers of what can work, I am giving myself a day off. This has been a ongoing issue since the second BD Monday, and after speaking with the attorney yesterday, quite stressful. Instead, I am cleaning out the closet. Purging unnecessary items. It needs to be done and with H gone until Weds, I can work on the numbers before he returns. But today-closet!
I will check back in today, I am going to think about what you asked me, Dnj.
