Ao he dropped the boys off and of course the ow was there with them!
I asked him if he went on his own (mistake!) and he said ow came too. And that apparently it wasnt planned etc but my son really wanted her to come etc. So basically he said to me that as i have done for the whole of our marriage i sucked the fun out of a great day!
Anyway he said he wants to have a convo as she wants to move in together! And apparently he is close to having everything sorted! I really am not sure how as we have joint finance and nothing to spare!
I saw his mum on tuesday and she has spoken to him and has said that he basically doesnt want to introduce ow to anyone as its not like that.....
So he is lying to someone, just don't know who?!
Did speak to him About telling the kids, and agreed to schedule a date to tell them after we are back from hols.