I wouldn't push too hard with your step kids right now as it likely a very difficult and awkward time for them right now,
Yeah I completely get this.
It was for S19 more than anything. He and SD19 were super duper close for many years. SD20 has had some of her own issues to get through.
I put it out there and will leave it up to SS20.
HOLY MOLY today just BITES IT. I'm driving home and suddenly has this terrible urge to call and ask H to reconsider EVERYTHING. Practically beg him to save our marriage. WHY? I know this is 1000x's wrong. Not going to do it of course.
Maybe because its this weekend I have to sit down and do all the paperwork and I know deep down I don't really want to and I'm just angry and sad and struggling to day.
So today's a bad day. Hopefully tomorrow is a better one.
I wouldn't push too hard with your step kids right now as it likely a very difficult and awkward time for them right now,
Yeah I completely get this.
It was for S19 more than anything. He and SD19 were super duper close for many years. SD20 has had some of her own issues to get through.
I put it out there and will leave it up to SS20.
HOLY MOLY today just BITES IT. I'm driving home and suddenly has this terrible urge to call and ask H to reconsider EVERYTHING. Practically beg him to save our marriage. WHY? I know this is 1000x's wrong. Not going to do it of course.
Maybe because its this weekend I have to sit down and do all the paperwork and I know deep down I don't really want to and I'm just angry and sad and struggling to day.
So today's a bad day. Hopefully tomorrow is a better one.
I think it's because you still believe he is going to magically snap out of it, despite all signs pointing to that being highly unlikely. Or as LH said above, you're still in denial.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
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