It’s ok to be all over the place; this is a mixed up time for the LBS as they find their path. (((Hugs)))
Originally Posted by PLC
I know there really is not ANYTHING I can do, but I do not want to do anything wrong. Do I text him and ask? Do I wait and see?
Realize doing nothing is actually doing something.
Therefore the assertion that there is not anything you can do is inaccurate. You make a choice to leave this alone and not grab the rope. It is doing something. It is you controlling you and taking your power back.
My advice, do not text or otherwise inquire as to his whereabouts or plans. He told you on Monday what he felt like telling you. It does you no good to chase after him.
Do see things not as right or wrong. Everyone and every situation is different. And right and wrong do tend to blur. You do what is “right” for you. Focus on you, the most important person in this!
Also, do not “wait and see”. Live your life. Stand and move forward.
What hobbies are you into? Movies, puzzles, walks, gym, baking? Your time is your’s.
You’ve got the gift of time, use it well and use it wisely.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
