During he second BD (Monday) I asked if he was “traveling for work” soon and he said Friday and would be back Weds, then leave for ten days or so for his vacation,
Friends, I know he is taking a trip to see OW or if there isn’t OW, he’s looking for her.
Anyway, we share a bathroom off my bedroom and this morning he came in to take a shower. It was early. I woke up about an hour ago, and he took the suitcase and carryon bag. It’s fine, he told me he was leaving on Monday, but he always tells me when he will be gone as he leaves. This time he didn’t. I don’t know if I should text and ask him if he is out until Weds like he told me, or if I should just let it go.
Can someone let me know what they think? Part of me feels like I say nothing, but another part wants him to acknowledge he’s gone. I would always be upbeat and tell him to be safe or have fun, but I wouldn’t do that, I would just say ok.
The last time he took off without saying anything was two weeks ago, I noticed the carry on was gone. And later in the day he texted and told me he was looking at a job and would be home Weds. that week. I discovered he took sick time during that jaunt. Then this last weekend he admitted during BD he went to Mexico for a “little getaway”. So this seems like a new romance as he was definitely more “around” before this happened.
I did not speak with him except hi when ne said it yesterday morning.
I’m all over the place, I’m sorry. I know there really is not ANYTHING I can do, but I do not want to do anything wrong. Do I text him and ask? Do I wait and see?
