You're right. I've come to accept (or at least assume) that her words were a BD, even if somewhat abridged in their actual presentation. That said, it's on her to do what she thinks is best. In the meantime I'm focused on being the best version of myself every day.
"I will not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. I will face my fear. I will let it pass over me. When the fear has gone, there shall be nothing. Only I will remain."