Yep... hard “no” on meeting the OW. I had a similar experience with my XH’s OW who was in denial that their relationship started out as an affair. Said she was sorry I “felt” that way as opposed to just looking at the facts. People do perform some amazing mental gymnastics to justify their behaviour. Anyway...just keep doing your thing. Sounds like you are doing great and have the right attitude to see you through this difficult time. You’re rocking this Gigi!! (((HUGS)))