It so great to speak to sane people that understand what is going on!
I have politely declined and said that i dont see any reason why i would meet her.
Your story about a friend is spot on! Even when i found the messages on the pc, h said its just words they mean nothing....
Im getting good at gal and just living life, im always happy (not fake, but i actually feel hapoy most day when i wake up), content and calm. And jeez i have patience that i didnt know existed.
H is only planning to tell the boys once he has a stable place to live at, which will take months and months to sort. Where he is staying at the moment is temporary and will end in 3 weeks, so he might end up moving back to out house.
But i will post about that when he has that convo with me! He hasnt yet......
