Husband Living a Double Life

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I calmly told him that I knew about his and OW secret FB page, and he flips out and tells me he doesn't know what I'm talking about, and then proceeds to tell me he interviewed for a job on the east coast (we live in the Midwest) and he was undecided about taking it but now I have pushed him over the edge with this accusation and he's definitely done

He knows you know. Bring it up again if you'd like to repeat this pattern.

I know he hurt you and so does he, but right now he does not want to acknowledge it. He may never. You have to prepare to live with that reality.

I don't know your whole sitch, but being an attractive woman usually involves certain behaviors. You want to save your marriage? Find out what is universally attractive and work on that. Then refine it to what works for your sitch. Get in shape, be happy, GAL, and grow yourself into a success no matter what your H chooses in the end.

Also, it helps to put your stats into your signature line if you know how to do that.