I also will look into the paints. As for a job, I have started fixing my resume during this time and then lockdown hit. I will finish getting it ready and start looking. Even if a divorce doesn’t happen, this would not hurt having more income.
He just came home, saw me and said hi. The one thing I see different from when he first came home after being in another country for work for over three months, is that he acknowledges the pets. He didn’t before. Maybe he has realized hat they are not the root of his happiness or unhappiness.
This is where I get sad, because maybe he truly is not mlc and just doesn’t want to be married to me anymore. I am sure others have felt his way. Is there any success stories with deep mlc? Or does the LBS just move on?