My mother told me I should text X to inform him he'll be served at his home tomorrow morning. The idea made me recoil. I don't want to, but I also don't like the idea that I might be doing something wrong. Am I doing anything wrong? Should I inform him? I really hate this feeling of doubting myself. I told him in an email months ago that I would divorce him so it's not a surprise. He had the opportunity to file a joint application but has ignored the paperwork for two months. I just want this over with. I can't imagine why he'd get upset or cause trouble but now other people are in my head making me anxious and confused. Help!