hi Joe,

I have only read bits of your sitch so I just wanted to stop by and offer my support. It gives me the feeling many things are going on in your W's head and that is a place where you probably do not want to get dragged into.

I just wanted to make a quick comment to you. I have been a workaholic and neglected my W during a much shorter M of 5 years but a big mistake I did was I also abandoned my beliefs. I think this is a really good time to review the core values we christians have and use them as fuel for our motivation, patience, to forgive yourself and to grow.

Just wanted to add this comment. I am sure you are a much more mature man than I am and you are doing a great job at DBing. Keep up your attitude and peace and I send you hugs.


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Me 29 W:29
M: 5yrs T:10yrs
S:6 yrs S:1 yr
BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19
Sep: 10/27/19