Wife and I have bonded unbelievably well. I feel like a newly wed. I don't want to get graphic but she has returned to things we haven't done in 20 years.
Glad to hear.
Now that you have reached a "Mini-Goal", I am sure there are more needs for both of you that can be worked towards.
One of my mantras: As the man, I am in charge of the romance and sex department.
I attempt to keep every interaction unpredictable and as exciting for her as possible. I try to change things up as much as possible. I talk about things that will happen in the future. I guage her response. I listen to her response. I ask her about previous encounters. "Tell me what you enjoyed the most about last night?" type questions. Be prepared for the same questions back at you. Or "I enjoyed kissing you yesterday." comments. I do this as a make/break contact doing my thing.
My 20yo will be heading back to college within a couple weeks. I am already building up the tension and suspense about what will happen when he is not in the house. This is all done playfully with a gleam in my eye.
Make her desire you. Have fun!
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
