Thank you JOB, I did not realize that the second threads needed to be 100 as well.
Thank you Cardinal, I did not sleep well last night. I tossed and turned replaying the conversation over and over. This morning is a new day. I need to take care of me. I called and met with a DB coach, I called and scheduled a consult with an attorney.
I need to see where I stand. I need to know what I could have and not have monetarily if a D happens.
Encouraged by the fact that the DB coach asked where he was going to go and I told her that he wasnt leaving anytime soon, he just "wants me to know". I am not going to assume that this is the end, nor am I going to assume it isn't. But I need to protect me.
Our child is 25, so there is some different things there as she is not a minor. it makes it a little different. I am really hurt that he chose to tell her before me. Like he needed to tell her so he would not fail to tell me.
Anyway, DB coach recommended if I am choosing to not share this information with any friends or family I need to be more active here so I have some positivity. So get ready.
