For those who are divorced/separated and have kids that go back and forth every couple of days, and don't live too close to your ex, how do you manage the commute?
I'm looking at new houses, and not finding anything where I've been looking (close to my ex's house), and so I was thinking of looking across the state line.
I'm worried about the commute on days she has daycare/school which is near my ex.
If I was across the state line, I'd probably be anywhere from 20-30 miles away.