Nor holding back on "cutesy" things. Why would I purposefully make myself emotionally unavailable to a person that is trying to win me back? I won't be cruel simply because I hold the cards here. I won't punish him because he did something wrong and withhold affection if I feel it.
I held back on that b/c I wasn't detached. Or maybe b/c I was still hurt. I am just saying that in retrospect, it doesn't make much sense. I am just trying to share b/c I think it was a mistake that I made, ya know?
I really liked all the other stuff you posted after that. Good luck!
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.