my advice is to proceed with divorce when he's feeling generous, confused, and full of guilt. I understand you want to keep standing. but what it comes down to is that divorce is a business decision. it does not mean there is no chance of reconciliation down the road. my H has said multiple times that he wants a D since last year. If we had signed a d agreement then, it would certainly be more advantageous for me financially. just something for you to think about!
