I don't know, I just read so many threads on here about people who can't stand each other and have nothing to say to each other; that's just not us.
Well Steve I can't speak for everyone when I was married for 2 years it was the best time of my life. Things were effortless before the pressures of raising children etc. It's not surprising you feel that way. Now having said that, the fact your W is chucking it after two years means she has some serious issues with her or you more then likely displayed some very serious disturbing behavior. It's rare to see people end it all after a couple years without serious issues.
Oh, for sure. My NG behavior was a huge, huge part of it. And it certainly wasn't all me, she brought her anxiety and intimacy issues to the table. So it wasn't all sunshine and roses.
I guess it is somewhat incongruous. She chose to leave after a little over two years, which would certainly imply some big issues. But if she thought I was emotionally abusive or a terrible person, then she would have immediately filed and we wouldn't have the rapport that we do.
I guess it doesn't really matter. As UC said, it's probably not all that productive to spend time thinking about why she's acting the way she is.
