I'm curious why you say you have great rapport with her?
So, it's anecdotal, but every time we do meet up to discuss what's going on, we end up actually discussing things for 15 minutes and the rest just catching up. She makes me laugh so easily, and vice versa. As an example, she has some anxiety around going to the doctor, where she gets really worried about taking her blood pressure. It's irrational as hell, but there's just something about it that I find charming and we shared a nice moment between us when we were last talking about it. It's just a part of who she is. I don't know, I just read so many threads on here about people who can't stand each other and have nothing to say to each other; that's just not us.
Don't get me wrong, I don't read anything more into it than I think we'd be able to be good friends if we decided that's what we wanted. But if in the unlikely event we tried to reconcile, starting from a place where we clearly still get along and appreciate the other person seems like a good foundation to work from.
