I would recommend going slow with everything Wayfarer.

I waited well over 6 months into R'ing before doing the cutesy things. I realized I was talking sweeter to the dog and started giving some of that energy to my W. I'm now 16 months in this R process again and still holding back a bit. But now I need to cut that out. Can't stay in your shell forever.

Of course I was still not to that emotional detachment state that would best serve me either. That will help a lot too. Keep progressing there and you will be A-ok no matter watter.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.