Mentioned to him a few weeks ago that he needed to put a forwarding address with USPS and he can do it online. He agreed that he could do that.... yet still has not done it. I'm done being a nag. I will not repeatedly ask for anything anymore.
That’s great you stopped worrying about it! Life is easier when you focus more on what you control. Up to him whether to forward that mail now, in 6 months, or never. You choose whether you continue to collect and provide it to him, trash it, or mark it RETURN TO SENDER. re: The settlement, if that’s firmly in your best interest, occasional non-nagging reminders are okay.