Your h knows exactly what he is doing. He knows that you love and are always interested in hearing about the puppy. He making sure that you are right where he left you. I would go on about my business and the text doesn't require a response at this time, if ever.
Continue the NC. It will drive him nuts and you will see that he will try various tactics to get you to respond. Eventually, he will get the message and leave you alone. You can't heal if you are in contact w/him or he continues to contact you. The clear message w/NC is that he will eventually come to understand that you aren't going to jump at his communications.
Yes, I recognize I cannot heal if he keeps contacting AND I cannot make sense of anything he does AND I should stop spending time trying too.
Mentioned to him a few weeks ago that he needed to put a forwarding address with USPS and he can do it online. He agreed that he could do that.... yet still has not done it. I'm done being a nag. I will not repeatedly ask for anything anymore.
