What a load of s***. Do you even hear yourself? You are going so far as to formulate excuses for a spouse who is treating you like dirt.
Have you ever seen someone walk into the supermarket and with their hand tap their back jeans pocket on the outside to make sure their wallet is there? Or someone to feel their pant’s pocket just to confirm the house and car keys are still there where they left them?
THAT’S WHAT HE IS DOING WITH THESE TEXTS. He’s just making sure he’s got you all wrapped up safe in his back pocket.
That's a great analogy!
I'm sure there is ultimate truth in that.
I was just questioning is there some sort of involuntary reflex occurring? Example - I spoke with puppy's breeder yesterday and some fun info on littermates and my first reaction was "I'd love to talk about this with H"... Of course, I didn't but for a moment it was something I really wanted to share with him. So I can totally see that the puppy does something really frustrating --- that I of course will understand so he texts me. But, then that's it.... its like he remembers that he decided he didn't want me for his W and goes back to nothingness.
Either way I'm putting too much energy into it. Wiping it out of my mind.
