Please, please check out lawyers and find one as soon as you can. Do not allow him to manipulate you into doing something that isn't going to be good for you. Right now, it's all about him and how much he can get away w/in the way of making sure you get what you are entitled to.
Here's a thought. When you can, start purchasing gift cards and hide them away. You can use them at a later date if money gets tighter. There is no paper trail unless he discovers them.
Last edited by job; 07/26/2008:23 PM. Reason: added link to new thread
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
