I am going to get an appointment with a lawyer as soon as I can. Thanks for the support, foxpop. No one does free consults around here unfortunately. I know he's going to be even angrier when I inevitably try to get him (or my L does) to pay for my legal services. From the consults I had previously, it's pretty cut and dry that I am entitled to half of savings, even if it was only in his name. He's even yelling about getting an annulment so he doesn't owe me anything. I'm pretty sure you can't do that after 10 years of M. The car is not in my name, but I am on the insurance as a driver, so even if he did call the police, I should be fine. I'm wondering if the L would consider any of the things he's said threats.