Im not sure there is anyone out there who can answer why he is lying.
But i just wanted to say that its the same here. I know about AP, as she is t a secret to me, but is a secret to everyone else. And we go from him telling me how she beautifully dealt with our son and held his hand, to lying to me that he has to leave early from having the kids because he is actually meeting her.
There is no logic to a sane person in these lies, i found its best not to question why?! It will drive you mad. Just accept that he lied. He has his illogical reasons that you will mever understand, that is just his reality at the moment.
