I hear you, its confusing because i rarely understand whether these requests are valid.
And as he changes his mind all the time, we go from he wants 50/50 custody, to seeing the boys once a week. And explaining it as in he is trying to give us space.
Because we haven't told the boys and wont be until the end of the summer, we sort of just plod along and one week is different from the next. I have stopped all communication with him over txt, so i dont initiate only respond to his txt about the boys or confirming times etc.
I cant ignore the affair as im sure he is influenced by what is being said and done by AP. But it is his personal life and i dont ever ask any questions about it. He has spoken to me before about AP, but ill be honest, i felt like im being somehow involved in their issues. And i really have nothing to do with his personal life and he needs to resolve all of it himself.
