Well I have heard from my solicitor and H has confirmed our agreement and the papers are ready for my approval so that H can send them to court. He's moving the D on all though slowly but we are not there yet and anything could still happen I suppose. I'm surprised that people think I should be relieved that H is moving forward with the D almost like it's the best thing that could be happening to me, yes I want the stress over with but I'm not exactly doing cartwheels over the end of my marriage. I have had almost 4 years to look back on our M and I have even been over it with my ic and even now I can say hand on heart that our m was genuinely good, despite what H said.
Anyway today H has shown a little bit more of the Mlc crazy. He has been using our streaming account ever since he left but in Feb he removed his wages from our joint account (his way of punishing me for having a long weekend away whilst leaving him to look after our D ) leaving me to pay for it. So when he accidentally logged himself out and couldn't sign back in, because I changed the password, he actually couldn't believe that I wouldn't let him have the details to log back in. He was actually surprised and couldn't understand why I wouldn't want my SXH using an account that I pay for. Sometimes I really do despair .It's crazy moments like this that remind me he is in crisis and that this is not because of me or our marriage.
