You refuse to do it. "Sorry, I have important meetings today and cannot leave early."
Gigi, you've heard that you cannot nice him back, right? In other words, if you gave in to everyone of these requests it will not change your sitch for the better in the slightest. So when he calls or texts and says "I need you to leave work early for an appointment" you simply say "I am unable to leave work until X." And drop it. Do not respond to any more texts. Do not answer his calls. He has the kids less than 50% of the time. He has plenty of time to schedule appointments when he does not have the kids.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
