If there is a settlement today, tomorrow, next week, next month or next year? Do you care? Or are you perfectly fine (forget what he wants) for now to just stay with the way things are? If you care about the settlement, then wade through the atty stuff to get a settlement......FOR YOU! Not for him. If you don't care, then sit back and do nothing. Ignore his queries about "where is the settlement"?
See you used the excuse about getting a better settlement for caring about what he wants last week. But the problem with that is you are still doing it to "please" him. I hate that! Do or don't do it to please you!
When I open your thread one day and I don't see statements like the quote above......I will do cartwheels of joy!
I see your point.
It wasn't that I'm wanting to make him happy... I don't want any of this. But, once he gets the settlement he will leave me alone.
Which is why I want left alone now. At some point there will come a time where we will no longer have anything to do with the other so it might as well start now.
I'm at the state where being in contact with him makes me unhappy and not being in contact with him makes me unhappy... I just need to clear my head and that is best accomplished by NC.
