Originally Posted by KitCat
^^^^So I'm not looking for his texts and the last 2 he sent I wasn't even aware of for over 24hr because I wasn't looking.

I haven't been responding because I know I can't handle it!!! I'm in NC because I can't handle his interactions meaning nothing.

OK so let me see if I can use my Rosetta Stone to decipher what's going on here. So you have his texts muted and the screen blocked but you are somehow able to catch a glimpse out of the corner of your eye when the sun is at 2:00 o'clock on a semi cloudy day and somehow your truck has a big mouth and can't mind it's own business.

So it would seem logical that since you don't look for his texts and can go 24 hours as long as your truck doesn't rat you out then you can move strictly to email by simply telling your STBXH while conducting business you would prefer to do it by email.

Now as far as why you are NC, it is not because he fired you as his W and is in an open affair and you respect yourself too much. It's not because you read on the internet that NC is the best way to get your ex back. It's not to help you with detachment and dropping the rope. It's because you can't handle his interacting being meaningless WTF??

I am guessing you mean meaningless to you correct? Because it is not meaningless to him. He contacts you every time he wants something from you even at 11:00 pm and you are sound asleep and you jump through hoops for him.

Do you think that makes you more attractive or less attractive?