You are the biggest excuse maker. You can rationalize anything !
So true.
KC, you don't accidentally notice his muted texts. You are looking for them. You didn't accidentally answer the phone when he called because you were in a fog. You knew exactly who it was and you answered it because you are desperate to hear his voice and cling to whatever shred of attention you can from him. Be honest with us and be honest with yourself. There's just no path forward as long as you keep playing these games.
His texts are muted... I don't look for them.
HOWEVER, when I have to text someone and have to go to the text menu to do it... it shows unread texts top of the list.
ALSO - my car still pings muted texts. So I'm in my car and if there are any unread texts from anyone... my car pulls the notifications from my phone. Its annoying but no way around that.
^^^^So I'm not looking for his texts and the last 2 he sent I wasn't even aware of for over 24hr because I wasn't looking.
I will give you the phone call. You're right. Half asleep I still saw the name but nothing was processing. I haven't been feeling well and took medication.
