BUT, here we go.... he was calm and polite and here goes my brain... maybe he is reaching for things to call me over because he wants to see where things are at? That he is curious??? Maybe he is waffling.
^^^^^ This is why I have to stay NC. My brain wants to betray me every single time.
Well done on handling the interaction. You did really well unless there is anything you are leaving out.
On the above quote, remember. If he ever wants to R, you will know without any doubts. When he doesn't, you will be confused.
So when your brain starts to betray you, quickly ask yourself? Do you know without any doubt that he wants to R? If not, then he does not.
This is the reason I had not responded to his texts even though one was a question. My brain is still betraying me!!!!
And, you are right. He has DONE nothing to show he is even a little wavering my way. He didn't ask a single question about me AND the only thing I volunteered was that I had not even looked at his email because I haven't been feeling well but was vague and immediately moved to end the call.
He never apologized for waking me up. I know he called because I have started to ignore him and he is trying to pull me back into PLAN B mode.
It felt good to vent and get it out there and the necessary wake up call of "THIS MEANS NOTHING. He just wants his money."
