One thing I just want to point out is I asked her if she is still attracted to me and she says yes she is and thats never been an issue and there was never an issue with our sex life. She is still able to be affectionate with me (albeit that will now stop if I do see her since the OM is back).
Its called cake eating
Yes have learned that from these forums hence the reason there will be no further physical contact while the OM is on the scene.
