It brings me a small measure of comfort how similar the scripts are from WAH's... H was telling me about how miserable he has been for YEARS and blaming me entirely for the breakdown of our M the other day and I broke my DB cool and asked him about his 50% contribution. He stuttered for a moment before launching back into me.
On my good days I see all of his monstering and blaming as a reflection of him and I pretend that there is a mirror between him and I, facing him, protecting me. And on my bad days, I think 'what if it's true? What if it is all my fault?'. I am working on having more good days than bad days.
