I am just so shocked about how cold she has become and just seems to have no interest in the marriage whatsoever. All thats on her mind right now is being with this new guy and that relationship.

Shes only concerned with his feeling and is saying he was miserable when she broke up with him for the two weeks she came back with me. Seems to have absolutely no idea what this is doing to me!

At the moment we have the odd text (at most twice a week) about finance matters or something related to the family but no other contact than that. The situation seems dire as she says we are done and she isn't coming back and her feelings have gone for me. Its so hard to decide if thats really true or if those feelings are just buried underneath the anger she has with the problems she's convinced herself our marriage had AND from the high of this AP.